Projectors in Human Design must read

Living by design has changed my life 🙂

"In the context of sexuality no one is designed better for tantra than the Projector. They are here to control the energy of the love-making. They are here to guide it. The success is not about how many orgasms they have. It’s how beautiful the dance and the harmony can be with the energy. Because this is a Projector at their best. But you see the only way a Projector is allowed to be able to guide the energy of the other is if the other wants it guided. See you can’t blame Projectors for where they are in this world because they are the first type that are totally dependent on another type. Totally. Everything about the nature of the Projector is dependent on the transformation of the Generator. Everything. Because as long as the Generator isn’t correct as long as the Generator thinks he is a Manifestor, the Generator will never take the guidance that they can be given.
And think about the beauty of what the Projector guidance is. It’s one being at a time. This is all about fractal lines, this is all about not wasting your energy, not wasting your intelligence, not wasting your concern, but in being correct being there for that invitation…
If you are a Projector you have no choice but to surrender. You don’t. You can’t bluff it the way a Generator can. You cannot. It is not correct for you. That all you can do is surrender to the fact that life is going to deliver, let life deliver one person at a time. Because this is the only way that you are going to be able to find success in your life…"
-Ra Uru